1. Encourage your counterpart to talk about himself, his experiences or his opinions. And listen. Many people are fascinating if you spend the attention to understand them.
2. Ask intelligent questions. It shows you are genuinely interested (which you have to be) in what she is saying.
3. Pause when talking about yourself to gauge the other person's interest level. Stop if he does not seem interested. Or let him ask what he's interested to know more about instead of rambling on.
The best conversationalist is actually the best listener.
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